Im i stupid for trying to make my marriage work?

im 23 and ive been married for a year and all we do is fight over everything. when i talk to my husband about how im feeling things get better for like a day or two and things go back to us fighting. i love him but i dont know if i am in love with him. ive been staying at my friends house to see how things go because he says he wants to work things out but its the same thing. i dont know whn i miss him if its because im lonely or actually miss him because whn im around him for to long he annoys me. Things jus get worse whn i think there gettin better. i wanna get outta jersey and move to tennessee but he doesnt wanna move away from his parents but he said he would anything to make me happy. wht should i do?